And here's some jollity to take the edge off the approaching autumn chill...
Tuesday, 18 September 2012
almost empty nest
Here we go. The nest is emptying again. In June it was Natalie nipping off to live in a lovely house in the Golden Triangle, working in the massive Toy Dept of Jarrolds to pay the rent and being an illustrator extraordinaire.
This time it's the boy Tim. He tootled off on the train to London village yesterday to start work at fancy investment company, Bedrock, in Mayfair today.
Got himself a neat flat on the top floor of an Edwardian 3-storey house in West Hampstead. A nice "chambre de bonne" he will share with his pal Charlie from uni. Ideal access for both - to work, family and fun.
All very well, but rather gut-stabbing and womb-ripping for the two left behind. The house is now scarily quiet. Minutes have become hours. Fridge still full of food. Many tears sobbed as we wander round the echoing, cold, empty rooms.
Norwich. 1994. Tim; Natalie; Flossie. Good, grubby bath water |
Nige and Tim had built up a closeness over the summer. Bonding. Projects. Building cigar box guitars, making beer, veg gardening, listening to music, going on long daily walks, cooking fancy foods, going to gigs, joking around, watching football and alligator hunting on tv. They became particularly intertwined.
Markshall. 2010. Natalie; Tim; Andre (cousin); Flossie |
Even our little baby girl Flossie goes virtually unseen. Now finally free from being formally educated, she is temporarily slaving for the grand Victorian pile up the road at their banquets and weddings, and at a glittery cocktail bar near the cathedral in the city centre, from dusk until dawn, literally, so needs to sleep during the day.
We will just have to adapt, and embrace coupleness anew...(and perhaps look forward to retirement in the gate-house of a mansion in the Cotswolds ....)
< may be needing this a bit more often
Tuesday, 4 September 2012
1980 NSAD grads reunion
A grand day had by all, starting with a tour round the college, cleverly arranged by Phil. It's now an immaculate, brightly lit factory of glass, stainless steel and cold rows of white Macs on shiny, hospital-white desks. No dust, paper, cutting mats, Rotrings, Spray Mount, scalpels or masking tape in sight. Or cigarette machines...
Met up later for a meal and some good drinking, and caught up with with more pals, - Anita Andrews, Jenny Hall, Tony Searle and Paul "Mac" Houghton.
Plans for further get-together. Send in more photos if you have any good ones.
Met up later for a meal and some good drinking, and caught up with with more pals, - Anita Andrews, Jenny Hall, Tony Searle and Paul "Mac" Houghton.
Plans for further get-together. Send in more photos if you have any good ones.
Monday, 3 September 2012
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